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Best Counselors for Marriage, Pre-Marriage, Relationship, Teenage Relationship & Breakups Counselling in Pune.
Our Marriage Counsellors in Pune provide Genuine help in resolving marital issues, pre-marital issues, teenage issues, child-parent issues, past and present relationships in marriage at our Marriage Counselling Center in Pune.
Our priority is you, We believe in therapeutic marriage counselling and hold ourselves to the highest standards. In addition, we constantly offer our services individuals as well as schools students, teenagers, housewives, office employees.
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Following Are Just A Few Main Types Of counselling.
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Marital counselling
Listening both or single and assessing the relationship, assessing the trust, love, communication and sharing between a couple with the help of therapeutic Talk & Problem-solving techniques
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Premarital counselling
Empathizing with the person and assessing the exact fear, anxiety about marriage and giving help to choose proper partner through therapeutic guidelines and if necessary sex education.
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Child & Parent Counselling
We assess a child when it comes to us through a parent, whether the child is frightened, stressed out or depressed. Also, we assess the relationship between parent-child, parent-parent, child-and other family members residing under one roof.
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Anxiety & Stress Counselling
such cases we assess the physical symptoms as well as emotional and behavioural symptoms. Here we use various behavioural and psychological techniques by which we can find out exact fear or stress trigger and let the person deal with it.
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Suicidal counselling
In such a case we genuinely empathize with a person and give proper emotional support and incidental paraphrasing the situation and triggers. Also, the use of imaging technique which is a very powerful technique for relaxation.
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Teenage counselling
Understanding adolescents/teens in their own language and if needed or asked to give the clarification about career, smart study skills. Discussing the importance of relationships, breakups especially with friends in this age.
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Reasons why people come for marital counselling.
- Wife gets too angry and she talks too much
- She has a daily conversation with her mother
- Infrequent sexual contact.
- He never understands me, anything I try to tell him, He always says that do not talk about the past.
- My husband’s first priority is his mother and hence he does not have time for me.
- Often I try to say something but he doesn’t listen to me, and He does not approve of what I have to say.
- He is a selfish person, He always tries to prove that He is always right.
- She never learns anything about cooking from my mother but she is more influenced by her mother’s recipes.
- Why stay with this person as he does nothing and if all housework, outside work and earnings I have to manage?
- His mother interferes too much and we fight/argue every-time when he speaks with her.
- Am I only responsible for children to study? Is he not responsible as Father?
- When she starts talking she talks and keep talking forever….
- Why she always cries in this warm home when I took all care of all?
- He is just like an Ox and just shakes his head when I say / tell something.
- If he didn’t want any change in life then why did he marry me?
- He changed after marriage. Earlier He was romantic, talkative, caring, attentive, understanding.
Points we cover –
- Concept of Marriage & Concept of LOVE & ROMANCE
- Characteristics of FEMININITY & MASCULINITY
- Advantages and Disadvantages of Marriage
- Three important stages in Married Life
- Living together
- Upbringing of children
- Rediscovering each other after children have grown up
Analytical method
- Emotional Needs(how much they give active attention to each other)
- Expectations(assessment of expectations & demands)
Transactional method
- Sharing of mutual responsibilities & verbal communication
Behaviour method
- Appreciation of positive things in partner and consider advantages of marriage
Importance of Male & Female Characters In Marriage
* Saurabh, don’t get yourself, bond with the wedding knot, you will have to repent. Look at us, we keep nodding our heads to whatever the wife says. You too will have to accept slavery for a moment of happiness.
* Nirmitee, you cannot understand my sufferings and pain, unless you get married. Ours is a love marriage, I am an equal earner in the family, but still being a wife, I have to accept a secondary position else, I am taunted by the words, “She is too smart”.
* Nowadays, youngsters treat marriage as a game, they are not serious about it. Their marriages collapse as if they are the house of playing cards, They get legally separated easily due to any useless reason or ego problems
Such dialogue is heard for many years. As time passes, the dimensions change, but the root cause is the same. Everybody wants to get married and they want their marriage to be successful automatically. Those who do not marry are either hate or sympathized with similar conversations. They are often emphasized with the vital importance of getting married.
Even in love marriage, there are different types of stresses and problems. In spite of all this, the enthusiasm of getting married does not reduce at all. An individual, who has had legal separation once, or twice / thrice is equally enthusiastic to remarry.
Marriage is an entity that involves a huge amount of celebration
Ceremonies, expenses, give and take, arguments, disputes, quarrels, fights, and in few cases even murders and wars. That’s the reason, a man and a woman being bonded with a wedding knot is treated and accepted as an obvious and traditional phenomenon. However, if marriage is such a wonderful, most wanted, repeatedly occurring event, then why does one come across martial problems?
Various lectures, books, TV Serials and newspapers have enlightened a lot about this subject. Many free advises regarding the behavior of husband and wife, how they should understand each other, how to communicate, how to cohabit-ate, go for a walk, enjoy a drama or movie together, how a wife should adapt with the family members, how can the husband play a balanced role in the disputes between his wife and mother etc. are given.
However, those who can sustain their marital life, carry on and those who cannot often shatter. Most of the times the wedded lock that no more exists at a mental level is inevitably carried out for the dependent children. These problems cannot have any permanent remedy or solution by anyone, and at any time, unless the master key to martial success, which lies in the foundation of the marital relationship is understood
Any wedlock or a marital relationship or a husband-wife cohabitation is primarily based on two facts and the facts are sexuality and finance or money.
These are only the two wheels that drive the vehicle of companionship. Other related aspects like family members, offsprings, relatives, festivals, religious functions, celebrations are all superficial. But sexuality and money are the two factors about which a man and a woman have different perspectives. A man and /or a woman who understands and adapts this perspective difference the most, and is bonded in a marriage can surely lead a prosperous and happy wedded life.
Basically, when a man and a woman get married, neither of them is aware of the psyche behind it. Similarly, no woman studies the approach of a man willing to marry. Both of them are totally unaware of it. Let us compare the mentalities, and perspectives of a man and a woman
!!!Testimonials!!!
[one-half-first]I got deeper insights into myself. Also realized different angles and point of views in different problems. I could see a link between motions & could get at least a light sense of empathy. Today, I realized, that, How Judgmental I am! I am finding a lot of things in myself which I have not accepted yet. I finding it difficult to accept each & every person around me. But, now at least I am aware about myself & I realized I am staying in La-La land. I think I should have a lot of patience to handle any client. I realized counselling anyone is not so easy. Also knowing & accepting myself first is important. I could catch some emotions & beliefs of clients. It was a wonderful experience. I realized empathy is necessary & not sympathy.
I got a deeper insight into myself;, especially about my own emotions. Secondly, I realized during the role-play that somewhere we all have an ingrained pattern of looking at things, people or problems through the specks of right & wrong, which makes “accepting” so difficult. Also, I realized the difference between admittance & acceptance. I feel content for the day, as I have been able to understand at least a few things that I should work on.
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[one-half]As I am learning more about counselling. I am realizing it’s not that simple to do. Now,, I am understanding the details of it. Now, on the 4th day of the workshop, there is one change in me, which I can definitely feel that I have become self-aware, which is helping me in my day to day life also. I learned that to manage anger, indirectly we have to learn how to behave after getting angry. Anger cannot be managed directly. Anger cannot be controlled but the behaviour after that can be controlled. If we accept our anger then it will be much easier for us to manage.
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[one-half-first]To tell the truth I was absolutely not sure whether I should spend 15 days for this course because my exams are there in these days. But, at this moment I feel that it would be okay if I even fail in those exams. This is because I feel that it is very important to discover yourself completely. If one would be able to do that he would be able to “live Life” in the true sense of the phrase. In these two days, I have figured out that this is exactly who I am. I am covered with responsibilities, pressures, etc. due to which self-hate has come into existence. I feel that whatever “truth of living life” I am hearing today, everybody should know about it right from birth. I would certainly try to use the techniques appropriately. Thank you.
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[one-half] Self-awareness & self counselling needs to improve first. I came to know today now word it is to work on what not to think. I have to work so hard towards self-awareness & self counsel. In fact, whatever questions I have been asking or having for others. I have to ask myself first just to know I am sure about what I think. Learnt the difference between communication miscommunication bad communication & lack of communication. Today’s session made me think what focus means. What & how to understand the event. How to proceed with the client’s problem without reflecting self-thoughts. Overall it was a very good & productive day. Gave a new attitude towards thoughts. Today I understand what is qualities of a counsellor and what can I do or not do – with the client but first I can understand self-awareness is most important for a counsellor.
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[one-half-first]I am trying to be self-aware coz I want good direction for picking our misconceptions about self & recognize self. Today I have realized the importance of self-expectation which is really very important & leads you in a positive approach towards knowing self. But still, I am confused. Well, the workshop was very interesting. Made me think about me briefly in detail. Got the importance of expression. The proper expression i.e. proper words to form a proper sentence at the proper situation. But still, the search of “me” is still going on. Knowing myself, self-awareness what I am exactly, why & how can I improve by finding what I am still going in my mind. Expressing myself with everyone comfortably I want to improve.
I saw in that box; my close ones who know what? Actual am I; what I want; how I am; he that know!! That 6-inch box actual knows what am I, but 6 fit me don’t know about myself!!
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[one-half]I have learnt ‘WHO I AM’ in the real sense. I became aware of the different roles I play & in the process what I have become. Roles = Rules Learnt Magic Box characters. I have learnt what relationship I should have with myself. It’s strange to have knowledge about this. Self-awareness in true sense. But, somewhere, there is something that is troubling me and I am yet to find out what that is This programme helps me reduce my frustrations. I think that is because now I understand what is happening with me and how it affects the people around me.
It makes me confident … but I don’t know what to write any more. It is going to be difficult. Got to know many things about myself as well. I was very restless when I came here, after these 3-4 hrs., I think I am feeling normal because at least now I can try to understand what my own problems are. Looking forward to the next class.
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